When you encounter a store display, advertisement, a product, or any other situation that you feel takes away from the true Christmas message, find the courage to speak up. You can tell someone directly how you feel; for example, ask to talk to the store manager if you wish to comment on something you saw in a store while Christmas shopping that you feel is inappropriate. Many national retailers and organizations have telephone numbers you can call to make comments and suggestions; use them. Sometimes, a written letter may be a better way to communicate. If your message is falling on deaf ears, consider writing a letter to the editor of a newspaper. If you use a computer, you might look into starting a weblog (blog) or contribute to other online discussions about Christ, Christmas, and His Gospel message of salvation.

Don't forget that a very important form of speech is found in the way we spend our money and our time. Be selective and evaluate different stores and organizations in terms of the things you value. Do you feel welcome as a Christian when you enter a store or when you support an organization with your time, talent, or treasure? Favor stores and organizations where you feel most comfortable from a faith point of view. Ignore advertisements for inappropriate gifts and try to avoid viewing or listening to offensive ads or other material during the Christmas Season. Unfortunately, in many cases children are the primary targets for inappropriate advertising. Do not allow yourself or your children to view movies or television programs that are harmful to the true meaning of a holyday. When in doubt, always lean toward God's side — what would Jesus do?

When speaking verbally or in writing, it is important to be respectful but hold firm to your principles. Many business persons will do the right thing and adjust their behavior if people they respect and/or need as customers simply express a preference without using a scolding tone or embarrassing them. Here are some sample statements you could make:

At a movie theater: "I really enjoy bringing my children to your theater over their Christmas break. But as a Christian I'd rather my children were not exposed to those sexually explicit posters, especially during our Christmas Season. They are also inappropriate according to CHRIST, and I support the CHRIST Program. Please consider removing them or moving them to a place where children will not see them."

At a retail store where you like to shop: "Your store is one of my favorites, and I come here often. However, your Happy Holidays sign does bother me, and it is a disrespectful replacement of the true meaning of Christmas. I and all other Christians would appreciate it if you displayed the more appropriate Merry Christmas sign instead. It is not against the law to have a Merry Christmas sign. If you have any questions about how Christians would like to be treated during our Christmas Season, I suggest you look at RestoreChrist.org for guidance."

At your own place of business: place a sign in the window that says "Merry Christmas. Happy Birthday Jesus."

When you enter a store and feel especially welcome as a Christian, tell the manager you appreciate his effort and that you will be shopping there again. A statement as simple as "God bless you for your understanding" may make a lasting impression.

When anyone says "happy holidays" to you, reply with .I have an even better wish for you: have a blessed Christmas."

During the Christmas season, add something like this to the signature you include in each email message, card, or letter you send: "Jesus is the reason for the season. Rejoice!"

It is best for everyone using the CHRIST Program to develop their own set of such statements. These might be few or numerous. These should be written down and occasionally reviewed so that they are at the tip of your tongue when needed. When you hear another Christian's statement that you like, add it to your list. Your list and its use are mightier than any sword in restoring Christ in Christmas.

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